There are no right or wrong answers here. What matters is being honest with yourself so you can live a life in alignment with your finances.
It’s also important to note that if you are in a relationship, your partner’s values may or may not align with yours 100%. While you might care about clothing, maybe your spouse doesn’t but really cares about having a nice car. Finding your values as a couple and as individuals will help alleviate financial stress in your relationship as well.